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Introduction
Most people hire for skill.
Smart leaders hire for attitude, adaptability, and alignment.
Technical competence matters, but it’s not what separates the great hires from the average ones.
What truly counts is who they are when things get tough, uncertain, or uncomfortable.
Here are 7 traits that predict long-term success — plus questions you can ask to uncover them.
01 - Attitude & coachability
Can they handle feedback without getting defensive?
Do they learn from mistakes or blame circumstances?
Ask:
- “Tell me about a time you received constructive feedback that was hard to hear. What did you do next?”
- “What’s one skill you’ve improved in the past six months, and how?”
Look for humility, reflection, and self-driven growth.
02 - Cultural fit and value(s) alignment
Great hires fit the energy of your team. They believe in what your business stands for.
Ask:
- “What kind of work environment helps you perform your best?”
- “What kind of people do you find hardest to work with, and how do you manage it?”
Watch for alignment between their values and your company’s culture.
03 - Problem-solving ability
Anyone can follow instructions. Few can think critically when no path is obvious.
Ask:
- “Tell me about a time you faced a problem without a clear solution. What steps did you take?”
- “If you had no resources or support, how would you still get this task done?”
Strong problem-solvers demonstrate structure, creativity, and resilience.
04 - Ownership & accountability
The best hires don’t hide behind excuses; they own outcomes.
Ask:
- “Tell me about a mistake you made at work. How did you handle it?”
- “What’s something that didn’t go as planned, and what did you learn?”
Listen for “I did” instead of “we did.”
05 - Drive & work ethic
Will they stretch beyond what’s comfortable when it matters most?
Ask:
- “Tell me about a time you went above and beyond what was expected.”
- “What motivates you to give your best at work?”
Driven people light up when describing effort, not rewards.
06 - Results orientation
Do they focus on outcomes or just activity?
Ask:
- “How do you measure your own success at work?”
- “Tell me about your proudest professional achievement and how you got there.”
Look for metrics, clarity, and pride in results; not busyness.
07 - Learning agility
Can they adapt fast to change? Can they learn tools, systems, or ideas on their own?
Ask:
- “What’s the most recent tool, software, or process you learned on your own?”
- “How do you stay current in your field?”
Agile learners enjoy the process of discovery.
Bonus: How to interpret answers
Depth: Are they sharing real stories or surface-level clichés?
Self-Awareness: Do they reflect on lessons learned?
Ownership: Do they take responsibility?
Consistency: Do examples match their stated values?
Energy: Do they sound alive or rehearsed?
Food for thought
A recruiter or founder isn’t hiring for skills alone. They’re hiring for character.
Because technical skills can be trained, but a mindset cannot.
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