Feeling Lost? Ask Yourself This One Powerful Question
How a simple question (and an exercise) helps you realign with your purpose
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Introduction
Let’s be honest.
We all hit that moment of doubt when we wonder if the path we’re walking is even worth it.
Whether you’re a professional feeling stuck, a business owner re-evaluating goals, or a creator questioning your next move — this one question can guide you back:
“Why am I doing this?”
But how do you find the real answer?
By reflecting on the following 10 life-shaping questions.
Answer them in a few honest statements, and you’ll unlock clarity like never before:
01 - What does success mean to me, and how will I measure it at different stages of my journey?
Is it wealth? Freedom? Recognition? Peace?
Define it. Redefine it often. Success is not one-size-fits-all.
02 - What are my core values, and do they align with my business or professional decisions?
Are you living and working with integrity?
If your values and actions don’t align, internal conflict is guaranteed.
03 - Is this career or business truly aligned with my passions and personal values?
If it isn’t lighting a fire in your belly or contributing to something meaningful, maybe it’s time to rethink.
04 - What are my long-term goals, and are they still relevant to my current situation?
Sometimes we outgrow our own goals.
Revisit, revise, and realign.
05 - Do I feel a sense of purpose and fulfillment in my work?
This one question separates burnout from joy.
Fulfillment is a sign you're on the right track — even if it’s hard work.
06 - What skills or knowledge do I need to acquire to grow in my career or business?
Growth always demands more from you.
But clarity here gives you a direction to move forward instead of staying stuck.
07 - Who inspires me? What do I admire in them?
Look deeper than fame or success.
What traits do they embody — discipline, empathy, resilience?
Can you learn and live them?
08 - How do I prioritize my mental and physical health with work?
If your goals are killing your health, they’re not your goals.
You’re just chasing someone else’s finish line.
09 - What self-care practices do I need to build into my daily routine?
Even 15 minutes of stillness can shift your day.
Routines don’t need to be fancy — they just need to be yours.
10 - What do I want my legacy to be? What impact do I want to leave through my work?
Money, fame, success — all of that fades.
Impact, values, and contribution don’t.
Food for thought
The answers to these 10 questions won’t magically solve your problems.
But they’ll give you clarity on what matters — and what doesn’t.
So the next time you’re in doubt…
Don’t get into the mindless overworking mode.
Instead, pause — and reflect.
When you know your "why", your “how” becomes easier.
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